Time is a great healer
Time is the great healer for sure. Emotions and pain do not go away in weeks, months or x amount of years.
This all sounds very strange and a lot of people would stay stop. Why on earth would I even consider the pain you are going through. You had the affair. Maybe that is true.
However, if you want to save your marriage it is deeper and more complicated. It is not just about one person but about two.
To make it work we must understand that both parties have been through a crisis and that both parties need to heal.
Someone somewhere said:
“Healing doesn’t mean the damage never existed. It means the damage no longer controls our lives”