This is deep.
To all those who do not understand why someone would have an affair.
Don't even try to understand it.
For those that fall into it, don't even understand themselves.
What they do understand is the hurt and pain they create.
However, they do not understand why they cannot stop even though they inflict.
Confusion hinders any decision.
There is not enough time and there never will be.
Time will run out. When it does the decision will be taken from you.
You will hate it, you will try to fight it, you will fall to your knees and sob. But remember you have no right.
Be strong and seek help.
Do what is right.