Welcome to the website. We have so much we want to share. Please take a look at the blog which covers a lot of topics. If you have any queries, comments or questions please feel free to leave them. You may help someone else in the process.

You may also find the book To Blossom and Back useful. The book sheds light on The emotions and thought processes during an affair. It covers the highs and the lows. 

If you have any questions or comments, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

Cherry isolated. Cherry on white. Cherri
Image by Mohamed Ajufaan
Cozy old street in Trastevere in Rome, I
Holding Hands


Life is nought but lest we fall and learn from our mistakes

To feel and question at the same time, having compassion and a sense of connection.

This is a true story with strong romantic encounters and all the elements that ensues love and the twists love creates.

It is an accurate account of pure passion and obsession (addiction).

The story is explanatory and genuine.

It describes emotions and the desire in a very factual way.

Feeling truly torn and lost is not a pleasant place to be, but it can be worth it in various ways, This is a written record, which highlights the pain and learning curves that are found along the way.

The book describes all those involved, it brings alive characters as they truly are.

We enjoys life, but sometimes we get it wrong. However, we do learn, 

Check out the blog for great insights



Feel free to click on these links for more useful sources and websites that help during and after the affair


We'll Help You Survive and Thrive After Infidelity
Take the first step of your journey and discover "The 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity."


A cognitive counsellor is a really good idea. They help you think about situations in a whole different way. I found my councillor Julia was a life savior. So pleased I found her.



I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to get in touch with any questions or comments and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

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A concept of imagination

The concept of all things good in a world unknown to us is comforting. Comforting but misleading. Comforting in the mind now, which...

An Affair. You are on your own!

God I remember the torment so well! How could one decision turn into such a stressful dilemma. Was she flirting or was I imagining it?...

Let's keep going with a page a day!!

Chapters. 1. Brief 2. Let’s go back in time, who was I? 3. Let’s go back in time. The marriage 4. The flirting 5. The not knowing, was it...

Page 12. I never forgot her.

My boss agreed that another service was a good idea and the service I mentioned, was about to go through a change. The manager of the...

Page 11. SEX

Sex was good and Mitchell was always keen, but even that had become habitual to me. I could forecast what was going to happen. At 10pm...

A Page a Day..

Let’s go back in time, who was I? Well, there I was, a regular hard-working guy. Forty-six years old, 5ft 9in, weighing in at about 12st...

A page a day..

I became a lying, cheating bastard. I talked to good friends about my problem for hours, the poor souls, but they were there for me....

A page a day.

Your feelings, memories and past will find you and it will bite you. But hey, I made those memories, I made those decisions… or did I?...

Post affair peace?

In one of my posts I asked, is there peace after an affair? This is a tough question and really there are two people to answer this...

Noise. Lots of noise.

It is amazing how we can lose control, and so easily as well. One day we are in control, the next, total loss. An affair brings lack of...

faltered, fallen and fatigued

What stage of the affair? Who would of thought it? Who could of imagined it? Who would believe it? An affair? Not possible. Tarnished...