TO BLOSSOM AND BACK

Welcome to the website. We have so much we want to share. Please take a look at the blog which covers a lot of topics. If you have any queries, comments or questions please feel free to leave them. You may help someone else in the process.


You may also find the book To Blossom and Back useful. The book sheds light on The emotions and thought processes during an affair. It covers the highs and the lows. 


If you have any questions or comments, please don’t hesitate to get in touch.

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Cherry isolated. Cherry on white. Cherri
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Image by Mohamed Ajufaan
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Cozy old street in Trastevere in Rome, I
Holding Hands
 
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WHO SHALL CAST THE FIRST STONE??

Life is nought but lest we fall and learn from our mistakes

To feel and question at the same time, having compassion and a sense of connection.

This is a true story with strong romantic encounters and all the elements that ensues love and the twists love creates.

It is an accurate account of pure passion and obsession (addiction).

The story is explanatory and genuine.

It describes emotions and the desire in a very factual way.


Feeling truly torn and lost is not a pleasant place to be, but it can be worth it in various ways, This is a written record, which highlights the pain and learning curves that are found along the way.

The book describes all those involved, it brings alive characters as they truly are.

We enjoys life, but sometimes we get it wrong. However, we do learn, 

Check out the blog for great insights

 

HELP

Feel free to click on these links for more useful sources and websites that help during and after the affair

EMOTIONAL AFFAIR JOURNEY

We'll Help You Survive and Thrive After Infidelity
Take the first step of your journey and discover "The 10 Most Important Lessons about Surviving Infidelity."

COUNSELLING

A cognitive counsellor is a really good idea. They help you think about situations in a whole different way. I found my councillor Julia was a life savior. So pleased I found her.

 

CONTACT ME!

I’d love to hear from you! Please feel free to get in touch with any questions or comments and I will get back to you as soon as possible.

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Truths

Perspective The perspective is an altered state of appearance with regard to their relative position. And the picture is obscured by many...

Memories

I was thinking today on the way to work about memories. Mainly about how memories can haunt you and how the memories you don't want to...

Tough questions but good answers!

Q. If you think about the whole journey, what is one of your biggest regrets? A. I could not possibly define one regret as the biggest. ...

Some answers to some of the whys.

Q. Why did you have an affair? A. There is know why? It is not something you plan. It is a build-up of feelings and emotions that at a...

Affair Questions and Answers

Was there any mercy when you had your affair? No! Looking back I think where was the mercy? There was none on my part. Not because I am a...

A Story....

To share an experience is to share a learning curve. That is the purpose, to help others understand either the mistake or to understand...

What a wonderful outcome!

A marriage that has blossomed since the affair. Great news. But how did it get to a strong and happy place once again. It was a case of...

Why 100% trust could be a bad thing!

I heard once that 100% trust is a health option in a relationship. But is it. I also heard that 100% was not a healthy option. I think I...

Time after time....

Pride before a fall, yet time and time again couples do not seem to understand that to give a little is a means to reward. Stubbornness...

The Affair Outcome

An affair is more than just an affair. There are severe consequences from such a deep and meaningful act. One of the outcomes is stress,...

Sex over rationalisation

Rationalisation is a wonderful thing. We Rationalise heaps of stuff on a daily basis. From crossing the road, what should we eat, shall I...

Let me invite you into my world...

A warm sunny Sunday afternoon. I laid on the hammock looking up into the deep blue sky. She came out. I heard her. I invited her to join...

Relationship suffers due to closed door.

Yes, we all need to earn money. We have bills to pay and we want nice things. House, cars, big TVs, phones, iPad etc. the list goes on...

Questions????????

If you have a particular question on an affair, your side or theirs please let me know. Just ask. I will respond with some thoughts.

10 tips to making a good decision.

1. Mind over matter is a good guide. You know what is right! But the flesh is weak. Be strong, be determined and let the mind win, not...

Sex vs Love

My Dad can be a wise chap at times (amongst his unfiltered self). But his response to my being in love was this: “The Greeks have many...

Marriage on last legs!

My marriage was 99% over. She had certainly had enough. She was broken and she had now decided that she would not continue. She was...